don't compare yourself to others!
by that phrase, there's no doubt we know what it means.just be yourself or in the other words, just be more confident with yourself =). consequently, why we shud not compare ourselves to others?have you ever thought of this question? =)
1) one concrete reason that i cud think of is by comparing to others,we will always fine new people above us or in simple word, better than us!ain't that true?hence, ourselves esteem will take a beating. huhu
2) we normally compare our lives to get approval or might be praises from others. a problem with that is we let others control ourselves in life. for example, you will feel glad if u hav the coolest basketball shoes than others. but the next second, u realize that there's somebody else who has better shoes than urs. dontcha feel bad after knowing it?obviously u are right.
3)it does feel like being puppet and having other people pulling the strings. those people u are comparing yourself to limit ur movement in life. u might hav some paths to go, but the strings are controlling u. hurmmmm~
well actually *to whom it may concern-my dear frens*, people don't care as much as u feared. they seriously don't. *even me!*. they might b bz thinking of their own probs rather than eyeing u for 24/7 a week. or, *they might also think what others think of them too-haha*whenever u hav the feeling of needing approval from others, just don't think of it!!
when u no longer comparing yourself to others and stop being pessimist, u will hav da freedom to do wut u want without being the other person rather than ur ownself =)
u will notice the opportunuties u hav that wasn't there b4 :)
to you, think of my words ;)
by that phrase, there's no doubt we know what it means.just be yourself or in the other words, just be more confident with yourself =). consequently, why we shud not compare ourselves to others?have you ever thought of this question? =)
1) one concrete reason that i cud think of is by comparing to others,we will always fine new people above us or in simple word, better than us!ain't that true?hence, ourselves esteem will take a beating. huhu
2) we normally compare our lives to get approval or might be praises from others. a problem with that is we let others control ourselves in life. for example, you will feel glad if u hav the coolest basketball shoes than others. but the next second, u realize that there's somebody else who has better shoes than urs. dontcha feel bad after knowing it?obviously u are right.
3)it does feel like being puppet and having other people pulling the strings. those people u are comparing yourself to limit ur movement in life. u might hav some paths to go, but the strings are controlling u. hurmmmm~
well actually *to whom it may concern-my dear frens*, people don't care as much as u feared. they seriously don't. *even me!*. they might b bz thinking of their own probs rather than eyeing u for 24/7 a week. or, *they might also think what others think of them too-haha*whenever u hav the feeling of needing approval from others, just don't think of it!!
when u no longer comparing yourself to others and stop being pessimist, u will hav da freedom to do wut u want without being the other person rather than ur ownself =)
u will notice the opportunuties u hav that wasn't there b4 :)
to you, think of my words ;)
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