and stop pretend to be somebody else-is what i heartedly wantad to say to someone.or shud i say a frens =).stop being too conscious of yourself or you'll regret it later.i just found out something interesting from one positive blog while i browse around.it says, don't compare yourself to others!
by that phrase, there's no doubt we know what it means.just be yourself or in the other words, just be more confident with yourself =). consequently, why we shud not compare ourselves to others?have you ever thought of this question? =)
1) one concrete reason that i cud think of is by comparing to others,we will always fine new people above us or in simple word, better than us!ain't that true?hence, ourselves esteem will take a beating. huhu
2) we normally compare our lives to get approval or might be praises from others. a problem with that is we let others control ourselves in life. for example, you will feel glad if u hav the coolest basketball shoes than others. but the next second, u realize that there's somebody else who has better shoes than urs. dontcha feel bad after knowing it?obviously u are right.
3)it does feel like being puppet and having other people pulling the strings. those people u are comparing yourself to limit ur movement in life. u might hav some paths to go, but the strings are controlling u. hurmmmm~
well actually *to whom it may concern-my dear frens*, people don't care as much as u feared. they seriously don't. *even me!*. they might b bz thinking of their own probs rather than eyeing u for 24/7 a week. or, *they might also think what others think of them too-haha*whenever u hav the feeling of needing approval from others, just don't think of it!!
when u no longer comparing yourself to others and stop being pessimist, u will hav da freedom to do wut u want without being the other person rather than ur ownself =)
u will notice the opportunuties u hav that wasn't there b4 :)
to you, think of my words ;)
